Parents & Families

Be a Cheerleader. Ask about their triumphs and setbacks. Listen without judgment when they share anxieties or doubts, and remind them that it’s okay not to have everything figured out. Encourage them to seek help; remind them that reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Ask Questions. Be curious and ask questions, especially during their first few semesters of college. Find out if they are enjoying their classes, feel confident in their plans, and are on the right path. Affirm for them that it is okay and very normal to course-correct if not.

Promote Independence. Encourage your student to take ownership of their academic decisions while offering support and encouragement. Stay involved by asking open-ended questions, listening without judgment, and celebrating progress to help them build confidence and independence.

Foster Resilience. Allow your student to take the wheel, but be there to support them if they take a wrong turn. Watching students learn to succeed or rebound from setbacks are some of the best parts of advising and parenting, and they need room to grow.

Encourage Help-Seeking. Recommend your student meet with an advisor at least once per term. Advisors will track their progress, connect them with resources, and share opportunities to enhance their Michigan experience. They can be your student’s “go to” person on campus.